People preaching forgiveness and not being angry and hateful need to fuck off bc guess what you don’t know what happened to the person.
I’m all about unforgiving and hating and holding grudges because it keeps me safe and mentally healthy and I don’t care about your stupid feel-good quotes about forgiving everyone everywhere always so you can take your feel-good emotionally…
Okay yeah but no. As a survivor of sexual assault where the perpetrator was an ex and to this day the majority of people I used to consider friends don’t believe me, I hate/hold grudges/ avoid these people like the fucking plague and have been told by medical professionals that this is the right thing to do. Acceptance is not forgiveness, and nobody has the right to force “forgiveness” on others. I accept my emotions and make room for them but I do not let them control my life (at least I’m trying). I will not forgive, and that is what keeps me safe.
I am going to exercise self control and not start reading my 3rd book in the last 6 hours at 1am
Ok literally but how are you supposed to avoids relapsing from TRIGGERS FROM YOUR OWN FUCKING BRAIN LIKE WHAT THE FUCK
I’m all about unforgiving and hating and holding grudges because it keeps me safe and mentally healthy and I don’t care about your stupid feel-good quotes about forgiving everyone everywhere always so you can take your feel-good emotionally manipulative apologist bullshit and shove it
characters that go from villain to weird family member give me strength
*deep voice* yummy yummy
modern Hogwarts headcanon
muggleborn sixth years jumping from moving staircase to moving staircase shouting “PARKOUR”
I CAN’T GET OVER HIS FACE WHEN HE REALIZES THAT HICCUP IS OKAY AND THAT HE FREAKED OUT OVER NOTHING
imagine living in the harry potter world and in 2014 youre afraid to open a howler because suddenly there’s like an 80% chance that it’s going to rickroll you